Sometimes something happens that causing unexpected compassion. One person is living in one reality, like its actually REAL, grieving a loss of something they actually thought was real. Another is living in their own reality watching with compassion the pain of the loss of something that never quite existed…….. and well, the third is in yet another form of reality. The only logical conclusion is that nothing is REAL, we only perceive something as real because of our projections. Don’t like the movie you are projecting into your reality? Change it.