This is how we exist in non-duality. We are HE, we are SHE, we are WE, we are ONE. In this state we are in our full power. There is no right / wrong or good / bad, there is just energy and this energy can be used productively in this state not destructively. How do we get there? It’s not a fight with ourselves or the surrounding world although it may look desperate and violent at times. It is a surrender – a surrender to what we are at the core.